To Look or Not to Look?

I watched Rachael Ray this morning as the furnace guy was installing my furnace. It's not a bad show. Rachael's voice can grate on one's nerves after a while though. Anyway, she had a woman on who feels so terrible that she is single. R then had 20 other single women gathered in the audience. She basically told them to stop dating for 90 days and to just enjoy life and concentrate on work, hobbies, etc. Is that the thing to do? I don't really "look" anymore because it doesn't seem to help (especially when most of the men are already married). I enjoy life and my friends. It would be nice to have someone around who was just mine though. I think I want it all: my independence and to be involved with someone on my terms. I don't feel particularly lacking, it would just be nice sometimes to know there is someone out there just for you.

I'll be interested to see what those women report in 3 months. My guess is that not much will change for them.